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ABOUT ADOPTION
Adoption is a journey full of different experiences, and a decision
that people come to for a variety of reasons. Some families want to
adopt because they are unable to have children biologically. Others
have been made aware of older child adoption and want to give a home
to a child who waits. Regardless of where you might be on your
journey, Child Saving Institute wants you to have an opportunity to
learn about adoption and become more informed about the child for whom
you might be the best adoptive parent.
For 116-years, Child Saving Institute (CSI) has played an active role
in placing children for adoption. CSI has been a leader in innovative
local and national adoption practices, including open adoption, older
child adoption, and post adoption support. Child Saving Institute’s
adoption philosophies are based on the following beliefs:
 | “The best interests of the child” is paramount to the vision and
practice of placing a child. |
 | Every child has the right to a permanent, nurturing family. |
 | In every adoption placement, there are two clients – the child
(the adoptee) and the birth parent(s). The adoptive family is the
resource. |
 | Adoption is a lifelong process for all parties involved. |
 | The adoptive applicant is viewed as a partner with the agency,
each having responsibilities and contributions to make in the
child’s placement process. |
 | The agency is legally, morally, and ethically responsible for
trying to place children in homes where they will have the
opportunity to develop healthy self-concepts and receive the
physical, emotional and spiritual nurturing they need to develop
their full potential. |
As you view this website for Nebraska’s Foster children, we hope
to answer as many of your questions as possible about adoption and the
children who wait for families. No matter where your adoption journey
may take you, Child Saving Institute hopes to be a part of it, as a
resource for information, education and support.

WHO ARE THE WAITING CHILDREN?
On any given day in Nebraska, approximately 200 children in the foster
care system are waiting for adoptive families. All the children are
unable to live with their biological families, primarily because of
abuse and neglect. Due to their past experiences, many of the children
suffer from issues related to grief and loss, which may result in
emotional or behavioral problems. The following are common
characteristics of Nebraska’s waiting children:
· Many are teenagers.
· Most are over the age of eight years.
· Minority or multiracial children comprise the majority.
· Sibling groups of 2, 3, or more children are not uncommon.
· Most of the children benefit from open adoption arrangements so they
can maintain contact with birth family members.
· Many have emotional or behavioral difficulties.
· Some may have physical, mental or developmental challenges.
As you go through this process, you may frequently hear the term,
“Special Needs Children” or “Special Needs Adoption.” Many people
associate this term with children who have physical or mental
handicaps; however, it is important to note that this term is also
used in referring to older children who are waiting for adoption.
Click here to view Nebraska’s foster children
featured in the Heart Gallery.

WHAT IS THE ADOPTION PARTNERSHIP
The Adoption Partnership was created in 1999 as a collaboration
between Nebraska Department of Health and Human Services and three
private adoption agencies, including: Child Saving Institute, Adoption
Links Worldwide, and Lutheran Family Services. The goal of the
collaboration is to find permanent adoptive homes for children who are
legally free for adoption, and more specifically those children who
have been waiting the longest.
The Adoption Partnership provides case management to 38 children in
the foster care system available for adoption, as well as recruitment,
training and support for prospective adoptive families. The Adoption
Partnership case managers have fewer children on their caseloads so
they are able to dedicate more time and energy to recruitment,
permanency planning and support of the children. All the children for
whom families are currently being recruited by the Adoption
Partnership, are featured in the Nebraska Heart Gallery.

WHO IS ELIGIBLE TO ADOPT STATE WARDS?
Different types of families are needed for different types of
children. All prospective families go through a training and home
study process. Some of the general requirements are:
 | Must be at least 23 years of age. |
 | May live together in or outside of Nebraska to be eligible to
adopt children from this area; |
 | May be married or single; |
 | May be with or without other children; |
 | Must be willing to become licensed foster homes; |
 | Must demonstrate emotional and financial stability; |
 | Must love children, be flexible and resourceful, and have room
in your home and heart for a child. |

HOW MUCH DOES IT COST?
There are no fees charged to families adopting children who are in the
state’s legal custody. In most cases, a financial subsidy is made
available to assist families with any special care need. This subsidy
continues post adoption, through a child’s nineteenth birthday.
Ongoing medical insurance (Medicaid) is usually available for the
child as well.

HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE TO ADOPT?
Below, you will find a step-by-step process of the adoption journey.
The training and home study process generally takes at least 3 months
and sometimes longer, depending on training dates and availability of
families for home study visits. A child cannot transition into an
adoptive home until this process is near completion.
Depending on openness to the types of children available for adoption,
families may be quickly matched with waiting children, or may wait for
a period of time before an appropriate match is found. As described,
most of Nebraska’s waiting children are over the age of eight, many
are of minority race, and may have emotional or behavioral needs
resulting from their life experiences.

GETTING STARTED
STEPS TO ADOPT AN OLDER CHILD
Step 1: Inquire and Learn About Older Child Adoption
To learn more about the process of adoption, contact CSI’s Placement &
Permanency Recruiter at 553-6000. The recruiter will help you continue
your journey by sending you a complete inquiry packet, or connecting
you with the appropriate trainer/recruiter for your area. If you are
an already approved waiting adoptive family, and you wish to inquire
about a child featured in the Heart Gallery, the recruiter can help
connect you with that child’s case manager.

Step 2: Come to an Information Meeting
If you are near the Omaha area, you are encouraged to attend an
Adoption Partnership Informational Meeting, held every two weeks, at
varying times. These meetings are sponsored by the three agencies
involved in the Adoption Partnership and will enable you to get all
your questions answered. They are a required first step before
registration for pre-service training. No need to call beforehand,
anybody is welcome that may be interested in learning about older
child adoptions.
Click here to find an orientation meeting that
fits your schedule: (Link coming soon)

Step 3: Register and Attend PRIDE & Spaulding Training Classes
At the information meetings, families receive the schedule for PRIDE
Foster Parent Pre-Service Training classes. PRIDE is a 9-week, 27-hour
curriculum intended to prepare foster and adoptive parents for the
placement of children in their homes. The training classes are for
both experienced and first-time parents, to help in better
understanding the needs and behaviors of children who have suffered
abuse or neglect. Classes include training to become foster parents
because any state ward placed in your home, even for the purpose of
adoption, is considered a foster child until the adoption is
finalized. This does not mean that potential adoptive parents are
required to accept foster children who are still working toward
reunification. With a focus on future adoption, these classes help you
understand the challenging dynamics that older children share in
relation to birth families.
After PRIDE, adoptive families are required to attend Making the
Commitment to Adoption training. This 12-hour class supports potential
adoptive parents through their adoption journeys by furthering
knowledge of adoption, and answering questions about the process. It
also helps prepare for post adoption issues.

Step 4: Complete a Home Study
Once a family has completed PRIDE training, a social worker within the
Adoption Partnership is assigned to complete the home study. This
process usually takes place in the adoptive family’s home and requires
a minimum of six hours of contact with the family. The home study
assesses a family’s strengths, limitations, financial stability,
emotional stability, and the safety of the home environment. Some of
the documents required to complete a home study include: Personal
References, Employment References, Medical Reports, and a nationwide
Criminal History Background Check.
Once your home study is approved, your family’s social worker licenses
your home and your family can begin looking at waiting children.

Step 5: Start Looking at Waiting Children
You are now a waiting, approved adoptive family. If you’ve already
been identified as a potential placement for a waiting child, the case
manager may begin the child’s transition process into your home. If
you do not have a child identified, by this time looking at waiting
children’s profiles will be helpful in finding a match good for your
family. You can search for waiting Nebraska children at the following
websites:
 | Child Saving Institute |
 | Nebraska Heart Gallery |
 | AdoptUSKids |
 | Nebraska Adoption Exchange |
 | Adoption Links Worldwide |
 | Lutheran Family Services |
You are also encouraged to attend open houses, and other area
recruitment activities, generally held quarterly, to learn more about
waiting children. The Adoption Partnership meets monthly with staff
from the Nebraska Department of Health and Human Services to talk
about children in need of placement. Your information and home study
will be shared with case managers whenever a potential match is
determined. The case manager will contact you to give more information
about the child and assess your level of interest in the placement.

Step 6: Experience the Placement of a Child
After making a commitment to a waiting child, the family and the child
will begin pre-placement visits. The frequency and location of the
visits will depend on the comfort of the child and the adoptive
family. The child’s case manager will determine the transition date
into your home. Adoption finalization can occur after a child has been
in the adoptive home for at least six months.

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